What our clients say
“We had an amazing experience working with our therapist. She created such a safe, supportive, and nonjudgmental environment where both of us felt heard and understood. She was incredibly thoughtful in the way she guided difficult conversations and helped us understand not only each other, but also the patterns we were getting stuck in as a couple.
What stood out most was how compassionate and genuinely invested she was in helping us build a healthier relationship. She never made either of us feel blamed or “wrong,” and she was able to challenge us when needed while still making us feel supported.
We’re incredibly grateful for the time we spent working with her. She gave us tools and perspectives that we’ll continue to carry with us, and we would wholeheartedly recommend her to any couple looking for someone who is compassionate, insightful, and truly excellent at what she does. ”
“Couples therapy has been one of the most valuable investments we’ve made in our relationship. What began as a last-resort attempt to save our connection transformed into a journey of profound growth, understanding, and renewed intimacy.
The most remarkable aspect was developing a shared vocabulary for our emotions and needs. Before therapy, our arguments would spiral into frustration as we lacked the language to express what was truly happening beneath the surface. Our therapist helped us identify patterns and taught us specific terminology that transformed vague feelings into clear communication. Learning to say “I feel disconnected” instead of “You never listen” changed everything about how we resolved conflicts.
The compassion that emerged through this process was unexpected and beautiful. Seeing my partner’s vulnerabilities through the lens of a skilled therapist helped me understand behaviors I’d previously found frustrating. This compassionate perspective allowed us to stop viewing disagreements as combat and start seeing them as opportunities to understand each other more deeply.
Having a neutral third party guide our conversations provided invaluable structure and safety. Our therapist created space where difficult truths could emerge without defensiveness. She noticed patterns we couldn’t see ourselves and gently redirected us when old habits threatened progress. Sometimes, simply having a witness to our communication helped us stay accountable to the healthier patterns we wanted to establish.
What surprised me most was how therapy benefited us beyond our relationship. The communication skills we developed enhanced our interactions with family, friends, and colleagues. The emotional intelligence we cultivated made us more empathetic and effective in all areas of life.
Couples therapy wasn’t always comfortable—growth rarely is—but the discomfort yielded profound results. If you’re considering taking this step with your partner, I cannot recommend it strongly enough. The tools, insights, and renewed connection we gained have transformed not just our relationship, but our entire approach to life together.”
“Working with our therapist was amazing! My partner and I had a break through in our first session. We learned how to respectfully listen and communicate without all the passive/aggressive banter we tend to do. ”
“I started therapy with the intention of learning more about my relationship with my significant other. Throughout that process, I learned so much about the type of person I am and how I can manage the relationships around me. After couples, I realized I needed to work through more in my life. I had tried individual therapy before but when working with Shae, I felt that they truly wanted to help me reach my goals and work through my emotions. I learned so much about family dynamics and how that impacted my life and shaped me into who I am today. Shae gave me the tools to have more control over how I respond to challenging situations.”
“I genuinely could not recommend therapy at the Relationship Center more, I consider my decision to work with Jessica one of the best choices I have made in my life. I originally arrived here seeking treatment for post-Covid social anxiety, but it turned out I had a lot to unpack and work through underneath that and Jessica was the perfect fit for me as I did. I worked with her for a year and it was one of the most transformative times of my life, probably second only to adolescence in terms of the magnitude of personal growth. I wouldn’t trade that growth for anything - I feel ready to take on the world now. To anyone who is considering working with this team but is still on the fence, I would say do it! It may not always be easy, but it will absolutely be worth it.”
“My therapist helped me be open with my thoughts/feelings/emotions with both men and women, and its brought down my anxiety overall because I feel like I can be my authentic self in most situations. Thank you for your lasting impact!
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“I realized my patterns in dating that were not working and led to dead-end relationships. When I finally met my life partner, I never would have considered him, had I not done work around what I was truly looking for. I am happy to say that my boyfriend and I currently have a 5-month old baby boy and plan to become engaged this year!”
“I really appreciated the work I was able to do with my therapist. I was matched with him after a 30 minute intake call and think that he was a great fit for my needs and goals. I’d recommend this service to anyone who is looking for a company that specializes in anxiety.”
“There’s so much I could say, but when it comes right down to it, working with Jessica has changed my life. My relationships and my career have both moved out of ruts since working with her. Through that transition and into now, she has always known when to listen and when to offer guidance. She balances emotional support and practical suggestions perfectly. And her sense of intuition is uncanny! I couldn’t recommend Jessica more highly; she is compassionate, funny, perceptive, attentive, and also incredibly resourceful. She is a dreamer with common sense- as rare as they come!”
“I was in the midst of serous overwhelm and needed a new approach to my life challenges. After helping me to get in touch with my strengths, my therapist gave me tools to apply change in a way that was not overwhelming. (It) allowed me to breathe deeply for the first time in a very long time. I definitely will refer my friends and colleagues.
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“I was able to leave behind baggage that was no longer serving me and have seen the positive results of my therapist’s coaching translate into amazing results!
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What other professionals say
Therapists and clinicians across the Bay Area refer their clients to us. Here's why.
““I fully trust Jessica and her team and have known them for years. They are leaders in Bay Area dating therapy and coaching. I’m grateful this service is available to support anyone who is struggling with the complicated world of dating.””